Comments on: I’m sorry http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/ The most wasted of all days is one without laughter. Mon, 06 Oct 2008 12:33:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: kilax http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2666 kilax Thu, 22 May 2008 01:04:20 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2666 Gina (Mannyed) - Are you going to send me some photos and guidelines and ideas soon?! :) javaqueen14 - I think you are right - we can find a little "crazy" in everyone - HAHA! Gina (Mannyed) - Are you going to send me some photos and guidelines and ideas soon?! :)

javaqueen14 - I think you are right - we can find a little “crazy” in everyone - HAHA!

]]> By: javaqueen14 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2648 javaqueen14 Wed, 21 May 2008 09:29:28 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2648 I'm thinking everyone has to learn that lesson the hard way..... it's actually good that you are learning so young. We are all special in our crazy way! That goes for family, friends, and co-workers.... I’m thinking everyone has to learn that lesson the hard way….. it’s actually good that you are learning so young. We are all special in our crazy way! That goes for family, friends, and co-workers….

]]> By: Gina (Mannyed) http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2634 Gina (Mannyed) Tue, 20 May 2008 13:29:30 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2634 pffft, ok then just laugh out loud to yourself, hehe. Yes, lets do the masthead for blogspot! One of the reasons why I'm considering blogspot is the ease of leaving a comment. pffft, ok then just laugh out loud to yourself, hehe.

Yes, lets do the masthead for blogspot! One of the reasons why I’m considering blogspot is the ease of leaving a comment.

]]> By: kilax http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2630 kilax Tue, 20 May 2008 03:04:45 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2630 Cat. - Personal crankiness? It didn't help that I didn't get much sleep either ;) Gina (Mannyed) - But sometimes it's not polite to laugh out loud ;) JUST KIDDING! :) CourtneyInControl - It sounds like we're not alone ;) Nilsa - Yeah, I guess in the long run, we ALL get a little more crazy? I know I feel a lot more stressed out, like I'm on a short circuit ALL the time... Kyra - Ha ha! I wonder if a lot of people are asking themselves that question! Jenn - I wish I got to see my parents more too. Even when I am in town with them, they are still running around doing a million things. But I am happy they have hobbies. martymankins - What is this "conservative card" you speak of? Ha ha. I think I DO need to learn to use it. It sounds like you are very reasonable and don't like drama... I'd like to think of myself as that way too, but I may be a bit selfish and judgmental :( Jodi - I think you summed it up - I can't change people. And if I want to be around them, which I DO, I just need to be more easygoing. Maybe there are a few things I need to change about myself too ;) Cat. - Personal crankiness? It didn’t help that I didn’t get much sleep either ;)

Gina (Mannyed) - But sometimes it’s not polite to laugh out loud ;) JUST KIDDING! :)

CourtneyInControl - It sounds like we’re not alone ;)

Nilsa - Yeah, I guess in the long run, we ALL get a little more crazy? I know I feel a lot more stressed out, like I’m on a short circuit ALL the time…

Kyra - Ha ha! I wonder if a lot of people are asking themselves that question!

Jenn - I wish I got to see my parents more too. Even when I am in town with them, they are still running around doing a million things. But I am happy they have hobbies.

martymankins - What is this “conservative card” you speak of? Ha ha. I think I DO need to learn to use it. It sounds like you are very reasonable and don’t like drama… I’d like to think of myself as that way too, but I may be a bit selfish and judgmental :(

Jodi - I think you summed it up - I can’t change people. And if I want to be around them, which I DO, I just need to be more easygoing. Maybe there are a few things I need to change about myself too ;)

]]> By: Jodi http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2626 Jodi Mon, 19 May 2008 16:49:09 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2626 Well, since I'm with the Fam most of the time, I would have to answer your question with a yes. People are who they are and you either love them that way, or choose not to be around them. There is also that realization that you can't change people - you can only change how you react to them. I think you also need to see the underlying goodness in most people (especially family.) To see that what they do and say usually comes from a place of love and a sincere desire to see you happy. I had to hit 30 before I really got that. If you can grasp it -- the earlier, the better! :) Well, since I’m with the Fam most of the time, I would have to answer your question with a yes. People are who they are and you either love them that way, or choose not to be around them. There is also that realization that you can’t change people - you can only change how you react to them.

I think you also need to see the underlying goodness in most people (especially family.) To see that what they do and say usually comes from a place of love and a sincere desire to see you happy.

I had to hit 30 before I really got that. If you can grasp it — the earlier, the better!
:)

]]> By: martymankins http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2625 martymankins Mon, 19 May 2008 16:23:34 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2625 Very few times have I wished that. As Kyra said above, family is tough. You want to be as honest as you can with them, but at the same time, you have to see these people again. So you tend to play the conservative card. I am glad that I was able to patch things up with my mom before she passed away. We had a falling out when I went through my divorce that was pretty bad. But we ended up getting pretty close, despite her wishes of what she wanted me to be and do. It was nice that both of us made efforts to make amends. OTOH, my sister and I get along, but we don't stir the pot. She tries to at times, but has learned that who I am now is who I am.... period. Trying to change that back to a former life isn't going to help our current relationship, which IMO is pretty neutral and calm, which is how I like it. Very few times have I wished that. As Kyra said above, family is tough. You want to be as honest as you can with them, but at the same time, you have to see these people again. So you tend to play the conservative card.

I am glad that I was able to patch things up with my mom before she passed away. We had a falling out when I went through my divorce that was pretty bad. But we ended up getting pretty close, despite her wishes of what she wanted me to be and do. It was nice that both of us made efforts to make amends.

OTOH, my sister and I get along, but we don’t stir the pot. She tries to at times, but has learned that who I am now is who I am…. period. Trying to change that back to a former life isn’t going to help our current relationship, which IMO is pretty neutral and calm, which is how I like it.

]]> By: Jenn http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2623 Jenn Mon, 19 May 2008 15:14:09 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2623 I wish my parents had more time to spend, but I understand they're busy with work and so I don't think our family is in a situation where anyone could, or needs to, try harder. I just wish they had more free time. I wish my parents had more time to spend, but I understand they’re busy with work and so I don’t think our family is in a situation where anyone could, or needs to, try harder. I just wish they had more free time.

]]> By: Kyra http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2622 Kyra Mon, 19 May 2008 15:09:08 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2622 Family is tough. I like to sit at gatherings and mentally ask myself if it weren't for the whole blood related thing, is this someone I would even be in the same room with normally? (A lot of my family are actually insane. Literally. Criminally. I try and avoid them at all costs, to be honest.) Family is tough. I like to sit at gatherings and mentally ask myself if it weren’t for the whole blood related thing, is this someone I would even be in the same room with normally? (A lot of my family are actually insane. Literally. Criminally. I try and avoid them at all costs, to be honest.)

]]> By: Nilsa http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2621 Nilsa Mon, 19 May 2008 14:28:14 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2621 Um, I dunno. I think family is entitled to be who they are. And I am entitled to want nothing to do with it. Ha. I kid. For the most part, I just allow myself to realize my family will get a little more crazy each time I see them. Usually that does the trick in terms of allowing myself to enjoy my time with them. :-) Um, I dunno. I think family is entitled to be who they are. And I am entitled to want nothing to do with it. Ha. I kid. For the most part, I just allow myself to realize my family will get a little more crazy each time I see them. Usually that does the trick in terms of allowing myself to enjoy my time with them. :-)

]]> By: CourtneyInControl http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2620 CourtneyInControl Mon, 19 May 2008 13:47:36 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/05/18/im-sorry/#comment-2620 oh yes, i think this happens everytime i see family from out of town!!! i'm just glad i'm not the only one!!! oh yes, i think this happens everytime i see family from out of town!!! i’m just glad i’m not the only one!!!

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