Urges to overshare [14]Comments on: http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/10/22/urges-to-overshare/ Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. Tue, 14 Feb 2012 22:46:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: kilax http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/10/22/urges-to-overshare/#comment-5521 kilax Thu, 23 Oct 2008 17:47:34 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/?p=685#comment-5521 CourtneyInControl - Thank you! And I hope someday... we all can meet! :D :D :D CourtneyInControl – Thank you! And I hope someday… we all can meet! :D :D :D

]]> By: CourtneyInControl http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/10/22/urges-to-overshare/#comment-5513 CourtneyInControl Thu, 23 Oct 2008 14:36:14 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/?p=685#comment-5513 i wish we lived in the same place physically too!!! (or at least somewhat closer- you and Gina are my blogger sisters and you guys rock!!!) and i'm always just an email or phone call away if you ever need me!!! =^..^= i wish we lived in the same place physically too!!! (or at least somewhat closer- you and Gina are my blogger sisters and you guys rock!!!) and i’m always just an email or phone call away if you ever need me!!!
=^..^=

]]> By: kilax http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/10/22/urges-to-overshare/#comment-5510 kilax Thu, 23 Oct 2008 12:35:06 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/?p=685#comment-5510 kapgar - I didn't even think of it that way ;) Ha ha. It's nice to hear someone else who relates though! kapgar – I didn’t even think of it that way ;) Ha ha. It’s nice to hear someone else who relates though!

]]> By: kapgar http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/10/22/urges-to-overshare/#comment-5507 kapgar Thu, 23 Oct 2008 11:39:48 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/?p=685#comment-5507 I feel like blogging is one of my better friends, too, aside from Katie. I can say what I want and receive positive constructive criticism from all over the globe. I love it. If your one real good friend in real life doesn't agree with an opinion you have, you're stuck with them. I'd rather have lots of people's opinions to wade through and decide which one I like. ;-) I feel like blogging is one of my better friends, too, aside from Katie. I can say what I want and receive positive constructive criticism from all over the globe. I love it.

If your one real good friend in real life doesn’t agree with an opinion you have, you’re stuck with them. I’d rather have lots of people’s opinions to wade through and decide which one I like. ;-)

]]> By: kilax http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/10/22/urges-to-overshare/#comment-5506 kilax Thu, 23 Oct 2008 10:11:34 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/?p=685#comment-5506 martymankins - I think it's good too. I just want someone... I know <i>personally</i> to be more open with. Just a close friend - I don't have many. And the ones I do have live elsewhere Steven is going to laugh when he reads that. He asked me if he looks like a Beatle the other day ;) martymankins – I think it’s good too. I just want someone… I know personally to be more open with. Just a close friend – I don’t have many. And the ones I do have live elsewhere Steven is going to laugh when he reads that. He asked me if he looks like a Beatle the other day ;)

]]> By: martymankins http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/10/22/urges-to-overshare/#comment-5502 martymankins Thu, 23 Oct 2008 03:47:19 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/?p=685#comment-5502 For the most part, being honest and open and sharing details is a healthy thing. Granted, there are times when too much is too much, but I think, for the most part, it's a good thing to share. BTW, in the banner photo above, Steven looks a bit like George Harrison. For the most part, being honest and open and sharing details is a healthy thing. Granted, there are times when too much is too much, but I think, for the most part, it’s a good thing to share.

BTW, in the banner photo above, Steven looks a bit like George Harrison.

]]> By: kilax http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/10/22/urges-to-overshare/#comment-5498 kilax Thu, 23 Oct 2008 02:07:29 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/?p=685#comment-5498 CourtneyInControl - We do need other people! We have a need to feel acknowledged and loved and cared about... everyone is just so into their own lives now, it is sometimes hard to find someone to share with. Alice - I don't think it's a bad thing. It's good to let it all out! If you can trust the people, so what? diane - I've been thinking about it more and more lately. I am trying to hold off until you start working downtown... or are at least better! ;) tori - Thank you for relating. You know it's not something wrong with husbands! Just looking for something different. teeni - Thank you for your compliment! My two best "girlfriends" both live so far away.. that I hardly get to talk to them. In college, it was so much different. It seems to be so hard to maintain that relationship when you start working, having a family, etc. :( Kyra - You said it - they are into their own lives. I hope we both find what we are looking for. Gina (Mannyed) - Ha! You should have asked Courtney! Okay, but seriously, it sounds like we are in the same place (mentally). I wish we were in the same place physically. :( CourtneyInControl – We do need other people! We have a need to feel acknowledged and loved and cared about… everyone is just so into their own lives now, it is sometimes hard to find someone to share with.

Alice – I don’t think it’s a bad thing. It’s good to let it all out! If you can trust the people, so what?

diane – I’ve been thinking about it more and more lately. I am trying to hold off until you start working downtown… or are at least better! ;)

tori – Thank you for relating. You know it’s not something wrong with husbands! Just looking for something different.

teeni – Thank you for your compliment! My two best “girlfriends” both live so far away.. that I hardly get to talk to them. In college, it was so much different. It seems to be so hard to maintain that relationship when you start working, having a family, etc. :(

Kyra – You said it – they are into their own lives. I hope we both find what we are looking for.

Gina (Mannyed) – Ha! You should have asked Courtney! Okay, but seriously, it sounds like we are in the same place (mentally). I wish we were in the same place physically. :(

]]> By: Gina (Mannyed) http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/10/22/urges-to-overshare/#comment-5496 Gina (Mannyed) Thu, 23 Oct 2008 01:21:12 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/?p=685#comment-5496 yea I totally understand that feeling. especially when i do a head count and realize i have more guy friends than girl friends. today, for instance, i had a victoria secret question and the first person i thought to ask was you and courtney (blog courtney). then i was like uh...would that be strange... sure you can vent to lots of people, but sometimes you need that understanding that they understand exactly where you are coming from. wish we didnt live so far, we would have fun together, im sure of it. yea I totally understand that feeling. especially when i do a head count and realize i have more guy friends than girl friends. today, for instance, i had a victoria secret question and the first person i thought to ask was you and courtney (blog courtney). then i was like uh…would that be strange…

sure you can vent to lots of people, but sometimes you need that understanding that they understand exactly where you are coming from.

wish we didnt live so far, we would have fun together, im sure of it.

]]> By: Kyra http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/10/22/urges-to-overshare/#comment-5492 Kyra Wed, 22 Oct 2008 19:32:20 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/?p=685#comment-5492 I have the same wish too. I just can't seem to find anyone. It seems that most are very into their lives and have little room for new people. But someone someday will want to be my friend, and I'll sure have a lot to give them. Someday. I have the same wish too. I just can’t seem to find anyone. It seems that most are very into their lives and have little room for new people. But someone someday will want to be my friend, and I’ll sure have a lot to give them. Someday.

]]> By: teeni http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/10/22/urges-to-overshare/#comment-5489 teeni Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:50:31 +0000 http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/?p=685#comment-5489 I hear you. That would be the role a good girlfriend would be providing for you. I have good girlfriends too but there are times in our lives when they, and I, are each really so busy with our own family matters and personal matters that it is hard to catch up or stop playing phone tag. So I totally hear you. And I actually feel that same way as you about loving the hubby and talking to him, but being able to give him a break and have a different perspective, most likely another female, who doesn't just listen and try to solve my problems, but like a sister, is there to feel it right alongside me. You have been having some wonderful topics of discussion over here, by the way! :) I hear you. That would be the role a good girlfriend would be providing for you. I have good girlfriends too but there are times in our lives when they, and I, are each really so busy with our own family matters and personal matters that it is hard to catch up or stop playing phone tag. So I totally hear you. And I actually feel that same way as you about loving the hubby and talking to him, but being able to give him a break and have a different perspective, most likely another female, who doesn’t just listen and try to solve my problems, but like a sister, is there to feel it right alongside me. You have been having some wonderful topics of discussion over here, by the way! :)

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