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		<title>Que Pasa? [7]</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 02:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my work contacts answered the phone today by saying &#8220;What&#8217;s up girl?&#8221; It was very casual. I&#8217;m not upset about it. I talk to this person a lot, and generally, when you talk to a person on the phone once, twice, or three times a day, you&#8217;re going to ask, &#8220;what&#8217;s up?&#8221; or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my work contacts answered the phone today by saying &#8220;What&#8217;s up girl?&#8221;</p>
<p>It was very casual.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not upset about it. I talk to this person <em>a lot</em>, and generally, when you talk to a person on the phone once, twice, or three times a day, you&#8217;re going to ask, &#8220;what&#8217;s up?&#8221; or &#8220;what&#8217;s going on?&#8221; because you want to know&#8230; why did they call me&#8230; <em>again</em>&#8230; <em>today</em>?</p>
<p>But I am thinking about all the comments left on my <a href="http://www.ilaxstudio.com/blog/2008/03/19/in-terms-of-ten/">In Terms of Ten</a> post about my young age. I am thinking about how a lot of my coworkers and work contacts have children my age. I am thinking about how establishing myself and my credibility at work while only being 23&#8230; is difficult.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m naturally, let&#8217;s say, chatty. And friendly (most of the time). It&#8217;s hard for me to play the corporate b.s. mind games with people when I know I don&#8217;t have to. It&#8217;s hard for me to be stern and bitchy when I need to, because I just want to play nice and get along.</p>
<p>Yes, I know this is unrealistic, and I had a very good tactic conversation with my boss regarding this. And it helps <em>immensely</em> to know they have faith in me.</p>
<p>But remember how hard it was starting off?</p>
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